Is fear good or bad? It’s a bit like the question is pain good or bed. In the matter of pain the answer is a simple one – it is both; bad because it hurts, good because it indicates something needs to be looked into or done about it. It is wise to fear some things.
My wife has a fear/phobia for rats or mice. Snakes she can tolerate and in her childhood has eaten snake meat, which she reassures me tastes quite nice – a bit like chicken. I have not asked her to prepare it for me even though we see them quite often around our place. Sometimes they even seem to come by post.
However, she hates rats. But what is in a name? She was in the paddock the other day and discovered a delightful little critter. It didn’t run away, nor did she. She thought it was a poteroo, (like a small wallaby) but strangely it didn’t run away and she stood and took a picture of it. No fear at all.
Naturally she came home and shared the experience with us. It is not a poteroo but a rat! A Rufous rat kangaroo. Hereafter she may prefer to call it a Bettong, but really what is in a name? Maybe, just maybe, the word rat won’t terrify her any more.
On the other hand the husband of the family living here some years ago, built a lovely tree house for his children to play in. It still stands solid and useable maybe 50 metres outside the home area fence. The children were allowed to play in it once, before the wife knew that it had been built. It was never used again because of the wife’s phobia of snakes!
4 thoughts on “Fears and Phobias.”
I don’t like snakes! A snake will usually move away if you let it. It might attack if you threaten it or tread on it. I know all that. I hate snakes because if you make a mistake you can get dead.
My mother was terrified of mice and rats with good reason. She was chased and bitten by a rat when she was about 12. Had to have the rabies shots.
I grew up in a country that had no snakes. They horrify me. I have nightmares about them. Fear of snakes makes bushwalking less pleasurable than in snake free NZ. A snake in the letterbox would be a nightmare experience.
I don’t mind snakes as long as they are in somebody else’s yard….lol